Wednesday, May 8

Confinement (part 2)

Remember when i talked about confinement? I believe every people or every race i would say will have different style of confinement. Chinese will have their hair not wash for a month, the Iban will have to sit beside fire all day, the Malay will need to bath everyday and so on. So what can we conclude from here? YES! Different people will have different style of confinement!

What I'm about to write here today is my dissatisfaction towards those who condemn others just because they have different style of confinement. Latest remark I got from my colleague was how ignorant I am in berpantang makan. Yes, I breastfeed. But breastfeeding doesn't mean you can't eat what you want to eat. Yes, I underwent cesarean operation. But my doctor didn't tell me that I should not have any seafood. Why did old folks warn us certain food was simply because different people might have different reaction toward certain food (read allergic). I'm not allergic to seafood so why must I stop myself eating them? Funny right?

Ahhh yes, I do not have the gut to yell at them upfront. Simply because yelling at them will show how immature I am. It was no use talking to them after all because every people confine in different way. Oh they do not even have kids yet!

3 comments:

Unknown said...

hi gwen..1st time baca blog u..hehe.. interesting okay.. especially part chinese will have their hair not wash for a month.. siyeslyy?? hurm mmg bnyk sgt pntg larangkan.. smpi xlrt nk ikut.

gwEniirah said...

serious! my colleague (chinese) x basuh kepala for 1 month. Betul2 dia gi ikut pantang 2. Sy pun kagum dgn dia.

Unknown said...

kagum giler!! xbsuh kpla 3 hari sbb rebonding pon dh pning2..inikan plak sebulan.. hehe